To lighten the anger my heart feels at the military (who my husband is currently serving an active duty mission as a military chaplain candidate) who is so slow in getting their ducks in a row that they blew right past the 1st of the month and ‘HOPE’ to get paychecks figured out by the next cycle of checks on the 15th. So like most people, this translates into rent and car payments going unpaid, food not bought, gas not put in the tank, litter not bought for the cats but it’s okay. The military is on it. I am so sorry to lay out my concerns in this fashion but it helps to know my community can share my concerns and support me to be better. It’s hard to be the only one at home to deal with all of the back lash from such a careless non urgency.